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LL44 #1360717 02/18/08 02:16 PM
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Hey lwb!!

I didnt know you were going to Disney.... When are you leaving?? We are leaving on the 24th and will be coming back on the 4th. We are staying at Carribean Beach resort..

Ok, so you have to send me a picture of yourself just in case a reconize you at one of the character dining places.. would'nt that be wild!!!

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I was 2 feet from her at the Valentine's party. She arrived right after me, and instead of waiting back a bit, she got right behind me to sign in. Lovely. I ignored her and walked down the hall with some other moms.
You are amazing....I don't know how you do it. Looking forward to lunch this week.


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LL44 #1360790 02/18/08 04:00 PM
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LWB,

Maybe the warm weather, time away from OW territory, and your loving detachment will help H think a little bit! \:\)

That is so cute about the fairy dust and trailing money. Are ya sure DD isn't pulling the teeth early so that she gets rich? ;\)

Have a good day.

JAK


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jak, LOL!!! She does play and wiggle around in her mouth quite a bit. ;\)

tal!! OMG We are dining at Chef Mickey on the 21st, will be in Orlando from the 23rd to the 2nd. VERY COOL. I will email you a picture, and you do the same. alarson71 at hotmail . com

I found out from my friend that H was out Saturday night, flirting and acting like he was 21 yrs old. I am glad she told me, but it hurts. I am tired of him acting single and me, at home, the schmuck married to him. I don't see him changing his mind (about wanting to be single) so I will progress with paperwork and hiring an atty when we return. As messed up as it is, I am very much looking forward to Florida with him and the girls. I think it will be a nice time.

My H is an empty shell, someone very lost. I miss the Old H very much, I really do. And I am very sad for my kids the days to come, for their little innocent hearts learning what the word 'divorce' means. I am going to tell my brother what's going on before I leave, but will wait on my mom when I get back. She is a...difficult..woman and will make this HER drama. I know she loves me and wants me happy but it will be a big deal to tell her and not in a good way

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Lwb,

Im sorry him acting like that, He really is in MLC. Yes he is very lost, and he will someday regret everything that has gone on here!...

Ok, so tomorrow Im going to email you a picture of me to your email address. I will email you what we plan on doing at disney.
We plan on going out one night, I don't know when, but it would be nice to meet you if we could get it together.. of course I would have to tell my H I met you some other way....hehe...

How do you think your brother will react?.. I know what you mean about a difficult mother.. mine is overbearing, and there is no way I could tell her any of this business of what i've been through.. she'd blow a gasket.


me: 37
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Married for 18 years this june
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porn issues, and much more... since 7/06

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
LL44 #1361164 02/18/08 11:05 PM
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(((((Lwb)))))

My spouse was also out Friday and Saturday nights acting like a d*mn lovesick fool half her age, pretending to be at home sleeping in preparation for busy days of working when it was all a sham. She was gone all night long too -- didn't even come home to take care of our poor dog. She still deludes herself into thinking she's fooling me or something.

I wish it didn't hurt so much -- still.


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TAL, I messed up the dates. I will be dining at Chef Mickeys on the 28th. Sorry...

My brother will be very supportive, as will his wife, my friend as well. My mother is very overbearing and will not like H after this, not one bit. I can understand why but for some sick reason, I will hate for anyone to think ill of H. Good thing I am in therapy. lol

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Lwb,

What's even more messed up is I completing understand what you mean about you hating anyone who will think ill of your H.. isn't that freakin messed up!! and Im not in therapy!

I am extremly protective of him (from my mother that is) but only because she always puts me in that position.


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Originally Posted By: tiredandlost
What's even more messed up is I completing understand what you mean about you hating anyone who will think ill of your H.. isn't that freakin messed up!!


Me too!!

I hope you have a great time in FL. I am totally jealous.. Sooo tired of winter..

lovelyolive #1361234 02/18/08 11:53 PM
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but really, I've gotten better then I was about that.. I use to be worse.


me: 37
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Married for 18 years this june
S7
S3
porn issues, and much more... since 7/06

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
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