Well, had a blast this weekend. Javier had the kids, and i went to hang out with my cuz, and we laughed so much, and danced, and drank, Um a little to much maybe.
But I made it thru the work day.
Left work early, today. Came home and a few minutes later Javier came with the kids.
He stayed for about 2 hours.
Fixing stuff, installing stuff on my computer, he ordered me my new cell phone.
And backed up all my stuff, and did all that geeky computer stuff that he loves to do.
I love it, b/c I hate doing it
Then he asked me, what did you do this weekend?
Me- went out
Jav- with whom?
Me- well i was one of the people that went out
Jav- I know who else went
me- the other peeps I was with.
Jav-
fine,be that way
me- ok
sooo, aren't you gonna say anything, b/c of everything i just did for you?
me- when you find out the kids aren't yours are you gonna stop paying child support?
jav- you are so funny, you can tell a mile away those kids are mine. And anyway, I married you b/c you are a good girl.
me-Oh so you left me b/c you wanted a whore, now.
I get it, good job.
jav- ok you got me.
me- yeah bye
jav- ok and he chatted about other stuff and left
he is sooo weird
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Hey Lissie: Sounds like you're getting the detaching emotionally part down pat. But if I were you - I'd detach physically too. I know it costs money but I hired someone to do the things I couldn't manage (or got the kids or a friend to help) and got my ex the Hell out of my house. I got so much better at that point. Just a suggestion.
He is INTIMIDATED by you. He is AFRAID you might date someone else - LOL! Serves him right. Look at SG's Ex. He is still doing the same thing.
They don't want us, but they don't want anyone else to have us either. How sick is that?
