Finding my way out of the dark

[tpaschal]

So what if it was? Don't beat yourself up over it.

Don't say it often, because then it might seem like you are persuing him, but seriously---don't you think the OW tells him how much he is wanted and needed and missed when he's not there?

I think an occasional reminder that you still want him around might not be a bad thing. Just don't make a habit of it.

This is just my gut feeling, though, so if anyone with more experience thinks this is wrong, please let me know.