I've been trying to do a little math here...Skinny jeans + cute & sexy hot pink t-shirt + breast feeding + butter-cream frosted cake + she enjoys baking and makes $$$ doing so + She wears the big "S" on her shirt for being such a good mother = ??????...is there any chance he's gay?
Jenny, I hope your having a good day today and somehow, I hope you're smiling.
Well if I wasn't smiling before I sure am now. Thanks IC....you're good for my ego. And as far being gay goes...I doubt it, but I'm hoping that CFB looks like a man!!
It's funny, my H's Mom once told me (when her H left her for another woman in FLA) that when this happens, every bad thing you ever thought about yourself is suddenly true. At the time, I heard what she was saying, but never really got it until now and I can totally relate (oh the irony that it came from MIL...). It's too easy in all of this to focus on our own faults and not to see the parts that say, "hey man...does he really see WTF he's giving up??" Sorry...foul mouthed Canuck again.
H just left with the kids. He has D over night and S for a few hours. I'm getting out for a few hours to go see some friends. I had a talk with him about being available when D needs him. He kind of blew it off a bit, but I think he got it. He's always the guy that is better when you give him some time to walk away and think about something anyway. Something I probably didn't do enough of before. I also told him that if D is asking to speak to me when she is with him, I expect a phone call. I can't believe he went 4 days without even calling her...even when she HAD left him a message. It's not really like him. Who am I kidding...none of this is. Anyways...guys thank for the posts. I've got to get baking soon!! J~
M 35 H 29 M 4 yrs T 9 yrs D 3 S born 10/19/07 Bomb 09/10/07 Separated next day OW - broke up and H moved out 09/07/08 Status - still figuring this out
