Please teach me how to detach too!

I know the weekends are hard. Some days I just want to stay on the couch and cry. But, I gather my strength and do something, anything to get myself moving. I'm getting better than I used to be.

I wish I could afford to keep our home. We just built it not 2 years ago and there is no way that I can afford it. I love my neighbors and will hate to move from them. Another thing that ticks me off about H. But, I won't move until H makes me. He wants this D not me.

2nd - the PI might be a good idea. It could possibly help you get more alimony/child support. Ask your lawyer.

I personally would love to take out an ad out in the paper where they are shaking up, our home town and where his companies headquarters are and have a pic of the 2 of them and their names that they've been having an affair for 2 yrs and that he walked out on his wife and kids on Thanksgiving day. I would never do it but the thought makes the little devil on my shoulder smile. \:\)