Wow, Lisa, you must have been really bored! Have you woken up yet?

You know, I don't think I have ever posted a goal, which is pretty silly of me....

So, how about these, as first baby steps:

1. She will say godnight to me, rather than just disappearing.
2. She will return a hug.
3. I get a kiss.
4. I will consistently keep my (our?) room tidy. (It isn't now, though it is better than it was.)
5. I will not react negatively when she says something I think is negative.

I remember once telling her that I though she shouldn't run me down in front of the kids. I don't remember her exact words, but she said she didn't see anything wrong with it. I think the next time it happens I will either walk away, or tell her that I will not listen to that in those circumstances. What do you think?

I will really try not to roll my eyes, I have been better. Things like the pan washing incident make it a real challenge! Is it a test?

I'm working on the CC. I am not getting a mattress until that's done. We could use the one she is on, though it is smaller. We used it for two years. But she says it is too small. I guess because she couldn't get far enough away on it!

You don't sound negative, Lisa. I've gotten so tired, I think I sound negative all the time. I have a hard time even caring, and that makes it hard to really do anything. When I figure out the cure for that, I think I'll be ok, whatever happens!

((((((Lisa))))))