the invites I would take as positive. But I certainly would not ask him what they mean. Here's something to ponder...you sent a text and
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As expected, I got no response from H.
begs the question...why did you send it then? I know your sitch is different but to me that sounds like check yes or no. If I'd send it I would've got bold NO. So, no response might be a positive. I would not push like this though. Seems like pressuring. He has initiate invitations V-day and movies, family stuff...be happy and patient.
Something else, the only person that has the right to decide if you should go for a D is yourself. Do not let anyone sway your decision. Just because your boss, your neighbor, you friend's cousin's dog got a D and thinks your in similar sitch makes zero difference. You decide. I've prepared for the worst and so now I refuse to spend anytime listening, speaking, thinking, etc about D. Your friends just want you to be happier now. They are not looking into the future with you and your family scattered and torn apart.
