Oh what a weekend! I told the OM's wife everything and she's threatening with everything possible (including the kids) if they don't move to another state. Ohh and I told her on his birthday.. lol. I don't plan on talking to her any more as she seems a little off her rocker but at least there's a chance here.
Yeah she's pregnant too which is really the last draw and she has to figure out whether she's going to be a 100% with me. My lawyer will file this Friday otherwise. So either way I'm just glad that my life will have a definite path. If she still doesn't make up her mind or chooses him then the D will go forward.
I've been through enough not to give a [censored] which way she falls off the fence. But my time is too valuable to be wasted on this BS
H 30 (me) W 28 Married 9 yrs 2 children EA found out on 7/5/07 ILYBNILWY 8/25/07 The unexamined life is not worth living -Socrates
OK so do I understand correctly, your wife is having an A and you called the OM's wife and told her about it? Also your wife is pregnant? By the OM i assume?
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Both 35 T 19/M 15 years S8/D5 It's over bomb/ILYBNILWY 12-22-07
My heart goes out to you. While this is the hardest thing we as spouses have ever had to do I can only imagine the turmoil you personally are in right now with this pregnancy that may/may not be yours. Keep your chin up and stay strong.
Both 35 T 19/M 15 years S8/D5 It's over bomb/ILYBNILWY 12-22-07
Ok here I am again. I filed on the 13th. And before anybody says I'm sorry - don't be. Like I said my time is to valuable to be wasted and just because her head is up her ass at the moment does not mean someone else won't see me for the great person I am. If anyone wants to be sorry be sorry for her, she aborted her child, lost her husband, screwed up her career. I just hope it was worth it.. I'm tired of feeling bad for her for me for it all.
I just need some space and peace and quiet. I've never wanted anything as bad as I want this divorce right now. I may not have my life back but at least all will be quiet (or quieter). It's hard to explain this to ppl who haven't been in this sitch. But I have a feeling there are some on this board who knows what I mean.
H 30 (me) W 28 Married 9 yrs 2 children EA found out on 7/5/07 ILYBNILWY 8/25/07 The unexamined life is not worth living -Socrates
Wow. My XH got OW pregnant while we were still married...she's due in a month, so I know where you are coming from. Stay strong and good luck....sometimes we do just have to say enough is enough and that we did everything we could.
M:28, D finalized: 8/28/07 Current Thread
"When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, show life that you have a thousand reasons to smile."
Glad to here from you hope. It's weird but once the switch flips it just feels really good to have resolution. Now my life can start... this is not an end but a begining.
H 30 (me) W 28 Married 9 yrs 2 children EA found out on 7/5/07 ILYBNILWY 8/25/07 The unexamined life is not worth living -Socrates
you know what's funny hope? Now she's trying to talk to me... trying to work the marriage issues. I don't think people would be cheaters if their lives were videotaped cuz then they'd have to see how idiotic they are.
H 30 (me) W 28 Married 9 yrs 2 children EA found out on 7/5/07 ILYBNILWY 8/25/07 The unexamined life is not worth living -Socrates
Lester, was it the baby she was pregnant with this time she aborted or one before? I would say you have had your fill and I don't blame you. I hope the best for you.
Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
