I have just made a decision after reading some articles and some other people's posts. I am going to let OW go. The past few days I feel he has been extremely honest with me and has shown the remorse I was looking for. I guess there is no sense in dwelling on it. Whatever they did or didn't do and how much I do about it doesn't really make any difference now. If he was still hung up on her he wouldn't have left.
Something else interesting when I was at his apt. this weekend. He looked at his phone and he said "oh, I have a missed call." Now if there was any chance it would have been OW he wouldn't have said that (turns out it was my mom). He would have just looked and not said anything. Maybe she isn't calling anymore...or maybe I am just reading too much into it.
My H has never denied being in a depression. He says he thinks he feels different than 'normal' people. We talked about his AD's last night and he says they do nothng for him. He said he has tried at least four different kinds and he doesn't think changing will do anything. IMO, especially after going to the Dr. for them myself...they aren't giving him the right kind or a high enough dosage. I also don't think he has taken any one for a long enough period. The only Dr. he has been to about it are the AF doctors. I may suggest that he go to a 'civilian' dr. I just feel like the AF gives out the same prescription to everyone without really listening to what is wrong with them. Also, they would MAKE him go to counseling to continue the prescription which he never wanted to do. Maybe I could approach it that. I could give him the name of my Dr. (who is WONDERFUL) and he could try that.
