H never came back from Iraq, part 3

[MichelleLT]

I have no idea what Skype sex is.

Skype is a voice/video chat you do over the computer. They both have web cams I guess, I know H does at least.

Well, I think he could pay for the D if he wanted to...he found the money to go to England. Where there's a will there's a way. Maybe he isn't 100% sure.

That's the exact thought that gives me hope. On the other hand, OW wasn't going to wait so he put that on his credit card, I guess he figures the D can wait or I'll file. *sighs* Who knows. I don't know why I bother trying to figure it out.

I have two things that I need to talk to H about I guess. The blood bank keeps calling and asking me for donations, I haven't gone since I found out about H's A because I didn't feel safe giving someone else my blood with who-knows-what in it. Especially after finding out about the Craig's List stuff, I really need more details so I know if I'm EVER eligible to donate blood again or if I can go in next time they call me. The second is taxes, whether to file married filing separately or together. Together would get us more back almost certainly.

I'm not sure how to handle it though. He almost never answers his phone when I call, he's not great about e-mail, and even IM can be hit and miss. Partly it's whether he's in a solitary mood or not I guess, but somehow I doubt he ever misses OW's phone calls.