Worried I found DB too late

[houndfan]

I was told that sooooo many times I lost count. I was the whipping boy for we won't make it, I don't feel that way anymore, I want to pursue other relationships, you are not whom I see myself with in X months, years, days....

Don't listen to that stuff. Remember that if you want to save this marriage it means that you accept the probable, embrace the possible, and don't give up on the goal!