Originally Posted By: Cobra (to Mojo) Even though you hated her non-cuddliness, that is all you knew. So no wonder your exH seemed familiar and comfortable enough for you to date and marry. Even though you may have hated that part of him, it was familiar. Even though you wanted cuddliness more than anything, you did not really know what that was like, you never grew up with it, so when you got it, you didn’t know what to do with it, just as Burgbud said. Damn FOO!
Crazy Eddie: But wait... she did grow up with it. Just not with her mom. Her dad showed all the cuddliness she could want, right? So why would she be driven to choose a man that's like her mom?
Here's a scary thought: I've read that men and women both marry their mothers.