Unfortunately no, I am at work. But, it is pretty quiet around here. I guess a lot of peopel took vacation today. H started his job today and I sent him a text wishing him good luck. He sent me one back and said thanks, and that he looks like a dork since he shaved. He had been growing a beard since he got out of the AF and I actually REALLY liked it...but he got nervous that he couldn't have the beard at work so he shaved.
Yes, he has never really said anything bad about me. Even through all of this he never blamed anything on me or said anything bad. He does have a lot to deal with and I am not sure how he is going to do that.
I don't think he would get defensive if I told him what the counselor said. I just worry that he would think great, that is just one more thing wrong with me and get down on himself rather than going to a counselor to see if it is a possibility. She told me that medication can do wonders for people who are bipolar. She said instead of taking AD's, they take mood stabalizers. I have done some research on bipolar disorder and I also think it is a possibility.
