I suppose it doesn't matter, but perhaps she was never willing because of her professed/real sexual orientation. And perhaps, that made it even better for him because if a lesbian thought he was so hot...what a compliment that was.

That's a lot of good things he said about you. It sounds like he still has a lot to deal with. You definitely used the time apart better than he did. I wonder if there is some way/time you could bring up an evaluation with him that he'd be more receptive to. It's worth a little brainstorming I think.

I'm glad you are feeling a bit better today. Do you have the day off from work so you can relax?


Michelle - Proud DR Rockette
S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09
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