Just catching up on your thread! I've been so busy lately! I read the caring statements your H and the OW supposedly made, but I think when you look at their actions that is where you see their true feelings and intentions and of course their actions don't seem to indicate a lot of true caring for you and the OW's trying to help out your relationship or wanting it to work out for example, but then her actions are destructive of course. I think sometimes they want to consider themselves nice people and use nice, caring words but their actions indicate otherwise.
It sounds like you and H are in a good place right now. I'm happy for you!!!Karen43
