Hi Kalni. Thanks for checking in. I don't have another thread. I just wasn't at my computer much this weekend.
Things have been going great. She canceled with me for lunch on Thursday since she was with her boss, but ended up inviting me up to her place that night. We hung out all night and then I stayed over. It was just a real nice relaxing evening. She had a pretty bad headache, so we just sat around quietly with each other. It felt great to hold her all night.
I didn't see her Friday night, but we did talk quite a bit. I ended up hanging out with my neighbors for most of the night and that was a blast.
At some point she truly committed to coming back home. She said that she's going to start moving her stuff back and that she's going to try to get out of her place by the end of the month. So we talked throughout the day on Saturday and she said that she was going to be coming down to spend the night and bring her some of her stuff. It was fun to welcome her back into the house and spread her stuff back through out it. It made my heart smile. We hung out with some friends that night and had a good time. Sunday was a pretty relaxing day. We went out and did a little shopping since today is MILs birthday, but other than that we just spent the day enjoying each others company.
She tried to talk to OM on Saturday before she came down. He stopped over to her place as she was packing stuff up, but I guess he's quite oblivious to his surroundings since he didn't take notice that she was obviously packing up her belongings. Before she could say anything, he told her that he just found out that his dad has cancer. He was pretty shook up about it, so she couldn't bring herself to tell him, which I understand. I think that she's going to do it tonight though if she can find time either before or after seeing her mom for her birthday. We'll see what happens, but she knows it's got to be done.
We know that we have to take things slow. We haven't talked about counseling yet, but I plan on bringing it up. We both want this to last and not to go through this again. She apologized last night for putting me through this. She said that she's very grateful for me and that she loves me. She also wrote my mother a very nice email. It hasn't been an easy road, but she's finding her way back home.
May you all find peace and love in your life, B
Me: 29 W: 28 T: 10 M: 7 No kids 2 Dogs and 1 Cat With Parents: 09/16/07 Apartment: 10/13/07 Back Home: ~2/16/2008
So we talked throughout the day on Saturday and she said that she was going to be coming down to spend the night and bring her some of her stuff. It was fun to welcome her back into the house and spread her stuff back through out it. It made my heart smile. 
