My H text me this monday morning and said: "I am giving up on the shop due to management issues".
I text him back and said: "Oh no! are you ok, will you be allright, i am home now and all week if you need someone to talk to, I am so sorry!"
An hour later he text me back: "talk later".
Then a minute later he calls me and says: "that he is fine and he will be ok and he doesnt want me to be worriing about him. He said he will just go back to doing roofing. He said it is a judgement call on his behalf because things were not working out well between him and the owner of the building he was renting the shop from. He asked how I was doing and I said good and that I am happy to have this week off. He said he is now looking for a house to buy so he can stop renting the dumphole he is in.He said he would talk to me soon."
I am scared for my H. He put his heart and soul and a lot of $ into this new shop, and now it was all a big waste. He is acting like he was fine, and even sounded like he was fine on the phone, but I know it really probably hasn't hit him fully yet. This shop was the reason he gave me for leaving me the second time around.
I hope so bad that he will be ok, and that he will not do anything crazy/unhealthy to hurt himself, but all I can do is pray. TIPPER