After two years of silent treatment, including her sitting in marrige counseling sessions (a) saying that she finds it very difficult to be there and (b) not responding (as in total silence) in response to most questions from the therapist including (1) W, are you finished with this relationship or would you like to work on it? and (2) W, what do you want, if anything, out of this relationship at this point? So if my W wants to be known and wants to have me listen, this seems like a pretty strange way for her to go about getting that.
