There are several ways to meet others, I guess its just a matter of what feels best for you, Some people really do not like on line dating and I was skeptical at first, and in fact got real fed up sometimes. BUT , some how through all the madness I found a wonderful man, didnt know they existed, with ex and all. ha ha
Granted I was on/off a few years, yes, even before my D was final, but I had been S for a few years.
I found friends didnt really feel comfortable or know too many single men, so I joined my churchs' single group. ALL women! lol so Social clubs- church, just being out there is all I could come up with. Met ex in college, so that didnt work again lol
You may want to just dip your toe in the on line dating, pick one suited to you, I used Cathoicsingls, but there are soooo many it dosnt hurt to try, and Jill and Barb will give you thumbs up too, like anything out there, people will love it, or hate it.
Good Luck!
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