Hi! I have bought both books and reading them but I don't see how I can use the tools and recommendations in the book if I can't get him to speak to me. He left 5 months ago and I haven't seen him since and we have only talked 4 times since then. We have no children to make us keep in contact and he is mean and hateful when we do speak. To the point of cruelty. He said he wants a divorce because he wants to be with his friends and he wasn't happy with me. (Again with his friends talking)
Any suggestions? Or should I return the books and buy something else?
