Hi sh- We have missed you here but I understand that part of detaching more from your H would include detaching from this bb as well.
Do you think your H is being nicer because he senses your detachment? Regardless, it is a good thing for you and your boys. I hope it does continue.
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I have a better understanding of why NC can be good for some. With time and detachment, it's been easier to leave all of what happened in the past.
This is true. If you don't have the "space" it can take a lot more time to detach.
I think it is so strange how we somehow get to these places where we just know it is time to let go that much more. It is almost like we are rock climbing and making it up to higher plateaus. We will eventually make it to the top and be completely free of all ropes.
I am happy that you are getting to such a good place. I hope you will continue to check in with us to let us know how you are doing.
