He hasn't answered your D for 2 days? Thats insane and so irresponsible. He should be available for his children 24/7. OW or not, that is wrong. I am sure you will find a good way to bring it up. That situation is not about you and him its about your D.
I love the baking idea. Could you get it to generate enough income then you can stay home with kids and its something that YOU want to do. I would definately check into that.
Hope your day is good.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!