Hi peace- I am glad that yesterday went well for you. Were you able to keep up your PMA in front of your H? Your H needs to feel like what he does has no effect on you. That is so much easier said than done especailly if you are still angry. I keep thinking that the anger is gone and then I have weekends like this last one and I just lose it. I wonder if that really means I haven't let go of the anger or do I just temporarily lose my compassion. Anyway, if we just keep moving forward and things will become clearer to us.
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I never know what H is thinking but he seems as if he hasnt moved since last year april since I started DB and intirally R seemed better but never progressed
We can only imagine the mixture of emotions swirling around in an MLCers brain. I think many times the R is better just post bomb because there is still a lot of attachment. I am sure that your H is thinking and from what he tells your D, he sounds like he is still trying to convince himself he is doing the right thing. You are learning to enjoy your life the way it is now and you aren't going to rush into a new R so just sit back and see happens with your H. Can you look at it as kind of a science experiment???
It was great to talk to you this weekend. Thank you so much for your support...this so hard sometimes and it truly helps to have others around that know what you are experiencing. I am going to look up that website as soon as I get a minute.
Your kids are out of school today right? Do you have anything fun planned with them?
