Don't push the divorce let him do all the work, but protecting yourself financially comes first.
They will manipulate you big time during this period.
My ex tried to scare me, persuade me, intimidate me, bribe me, all for the almighty buck.
Be strong and take care of you.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11