Well she did send a letter from her lawyer saying she wanted to desolve the marrage due to irreconsilable differances back on December 5th but nothing has been filed for I sent a letter back saying no way and let's try to work this out. Now she is talking seperation, I wounder what the legal difference is? She has my head spinning but I am remaining very calm. I would imagine if and when we really do get seperated and she takes off for a weekend that's when I am really going to hurt. I am thinking way to much. Gotta work on me. Thanks!