I would also like to add that the worse they treat the LBS and children during the crisis the harder they fall.
He will FALL VERY HARD.
It will be your decision how you treat him when this happens and what your goals are.
Love
Goal/Trusting
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11