Why dont women know what they want??? I get into trouble because I was too needy, now she thinks I am not needy enough!!
Because she is conflicted - She has OM on her mind, and you are there too. A big part of OM is that you get shoved out of that part of her mind, so you end up getting the brunt of the majority of her problems.
Until OM is out of the picture, you're not going to see much progress - She is going to be up, down, up down. You're going to get dragged over the coals and you just have to try to tolerate it in the most healthy way possible.
