I'd suggest reading a book like hope for the separated by chapman or listen to the KLA cd's. You have to keep up the PMA and this helps. Perhaps read 5LL's by Chapman also. With her in the house, you could speak her love language without going overboard.

Also, do what I do a poor job of, find something to do when you aren't working. You have to find something. And I'd suggest find something small to look forward to. Go out for coffee, catch a movie, just something simple. You don't need a life altering event to GAL. Just anything. If you have little things each day to look forward to it helps puts you in better spirits. It isn't easy and often I just don't want to do it. But you have to do it. It's the only way. Cannot just sit, wait, and be miserable. Heck 5D and I cleaned boat Saturday...at least WAW wasn't the dominating thought for an hour. Of course 5D starts with remember when you and mommy and I went fishing, blah blah...after 15 years together everything is going to be like that I suppose.

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