Meredith - your 5 years..

[Meredith]

I think my emotional outbursts will scare him off before I ever get the chance to make a decision anyway.

You are a making what will henceforth be known as a strawberry decision. (read a few posts back). It is a decision that might work fabulously for strawberries but does not pertain to marriage and divorce. I know that you're on a limited time frame, but I think I can attest to the fact that divorce doesn’t mean a thing.

What decision is there to be made? Whether or not to kick him in the...nose...? I'm not sure what that smiley is really doing, but to me it looked like he was getting punched in the...nose...!

Make your decisions as they come. You don't have to give him a definitive answer; there is no 'check yes or no' here. Your decisions should center on specific short-term events. That is, should I call H or do I want to go see this movie or am I capable of having him for dinner? Those decisions. The rest will come as it is. Do NOT NOT NOT be afraid to ask him the tough questions - just make sure the decision is centered on timing for the best results. (This was for CMNM. She is in a place where tough questions are cool. Not always the case. Disclaimer over).

Okay? So let's all pledge to not make a billion decisions into one supervaluemenu decision. Deal?

Oh, I have to do this... one big shout out to all of us with a GO YOU!!!!