Sorry to hear about your situation. My W and I separated on 9/29/07. For a long time she was really mean to me. She was also hitting the wine real hard which did not help matters.
I made a LOT of mistakes with the DB stuff. I still have a hard time with it.
Give her space, avoid relationship talks, no pressue and then she may come back to you. Based upon the success stories on this board, that seems to be the winning formula.
