One of the reasons why DB suggest no R talk is that the WAS will come out with all sorts of crazy things which are only a small part of their thought process. Talk to her tomorrow she'll come out with somthing different. If you latch on to a somthing small and think it's the way forward you could end up disappointed.
Originally Posted By: steve477
PS yes I know.... too many R talks!
I would add to this don't believe anything they say and only 50% of what you see. OK there are some positives in what she's thinking about, and if you hadn't had so many R talks previously I'd say that she was testing the waters to see if you are really gaining independance and are a difffent person and if theres a way back for her without her feeling dishonoured. Yes, if you hadn't had so much R talk I'd say your DB'ing was working and making progress.
