Hi all, Went in to her room with her morning coffee this morning before work. She said she had been up a couple of hours. She said she had been thinking, about me. She can see that I have made a lot of changes, but is not sure that I am still the same man she fell in love with. So I joked, you loved the `lazy steve` more than you love the `new steve`. She said that she really enjoyed taking care of me, and now she sees I dont need taking care of. I told her that wasnt exactly true, I thought she would be able to see I still need her, even though my actions show different. She said that her job took her away from me so she couldnt take care of me. I told her I had always secretly wanted her to quit her job and go for a parttime job. She said that she didnt think she could fall in love with the same man again, so I excused myself at this point. As I was walking out the door she stopped me and told me to forget what she had just said about falling for the same guy, she doesnt know what the future holds.
Why dont women know what they want??? I get into trouble because I was too needy, now she thinks I am not needy enough!!
Any insight into this? Or previously mentioned things about OM.
Cheers
Steve
PS yes I know.... too many R talks!
Last edited by steve477; 02/18/0807:16 AM.
Me 27 W 30 M 2yrs/ T 5yrs Expecting our first child Sept 08 warning bomb (has feelings for someone) 21/12/08 I found out about OM (by snooping) 14/1/08 Living together.
