I have to talk to him about it...I have to figure out a way to do it DB style. I don't want to be angry, I just want to do what is right for her and he needs to available to her if she needs him. AND...if he is indeed out of town...shouldn't I know that in case I need to get a hold of him about the kids? Like in an emergency? He isn't thinking like a Dad right now.
I struggled with this with my W at the very beginning. She'd go out in the evening and come home at 2-3am or something insane. Of course, she'd never answer her phone at all the whole time.
I forget exactly what happened, but at one point she got it into her head that she needed to be available in the event something happened with D - Part of it was me not calling her at all unless there was a problem, and part was her making an effort for D.
I had a problem on Friday with my W when I'd call her, and she'd not answer, but she'd instant message me later. wtf is that? My W has four phone numbers - Two of which are cell phones (one personal, one from work), and she is the most impossible person to get a hold of. She is weird about using phones in the first place, but she has caller ID so she knows it's me... Maybe that's the problem
