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[BEAUTYandWAH]

Questions.. I hope someone can give me feedback/thoughts..

So, I was thinking about myH's trip coming up soon. According to him, she is paying for it and he is broke so I can believe that. If he is going to her home/hometown, I believe he is going to see her family (mom, sick dad, and whoever...) I don't have confirm yet and there is no way to get the truth.

Do I let it happen...?

I went to Oprah.com and was reading information about a topic " I am the other woman" (anybody seen it? I think it was on Oct, last year) It gave me insight of 'other woman thoughts'.. and there is one woman said she believed everything what the married man said about his family, his wife, his life of other side... Of course, he is a lier and why he would not lie to her?

My H may be saying to OW like

-divorce is coming soon (truth... NO! because we don't have money)
-i do not see my wife anymore (.. we see everyday)
-my wife was terrible woman for last 7 years (.. I am independent, good mother, caring, good person for him, his family, my family and society .. according to me :))
-she said she is going back to her country (... if it is the right thing to do in the future. Until then, I will fight for myself and kids!)
-she does not care about me and OW's relationship any more (.. I care about him soo much and still love him and it hurts me every moment since the A started)
-she moved on and she does not contact me at all (..HELL NO, I am still here and trying to figure out!!)
-my kids seem happy because I am happy (.. D7 has separation anxiety, she is in therapy, she cries alot and she worried SO MUCH, and S2 is not a same little guy any more)
-i think my family will love you once they get to know you (...that will be mystery in the future but they offer me and kids to live with them so.. not anytime soon)
-i love to your family (.. I think it could be true because their A (or R) becomes reality if other people involve.. Right now their R is still fantasy, sin.. you know).
-I will not leave you forever (... Oh, Honey, if she finds out many things you have done (lies, cheating on her with your wife, give her great speech how her life will be wonderful) I am not sure if she will look at you the same.



just needed to vent.. thank you..
Beauty