New and alone

[addie]

The WAS believes that the LBS can never change and therefore there is no point to working on the R. I heard this from H as well.


I've gone into R talks several times. It's very difficult to bite my tongue but I know it must be done. I think it gets easier as you continue to detach more - I know it has for me. You've only been separated about 3 weeks. Give it some more time.