Still not divorced. W has been pushing me for months to just "sign" since it is only a piece of paper. I refuse to voluntarily agree to a divorce that wil have long-lasting effects on our children.
W is still very angry, bitter and resentful about not having a third child and the financial hardship I caused.
Her EA ended(I believe) once her father became aware of her "talking" to OM. Her father told her that he does not condone that behavior and he doesn't blame me for reacting as I did about OM.
D&S will not give me permission to get a divorce so I won't agree.
Have done many loving things for my W the last few months despite her anger and verbal beatings.
Last week we talked on the phone for 4 hours about everything that included her crying about how she didn't want this but has no choice.
I am no longer allowed to enter her apartment because she she said she will not accommodate me since I refuse to sign papers.
Working a good job 60-70 hours a week to get back on my feet.
I am not dating or had any physical contact with any woman. I am still married and wear my ring all the time.
I could go on and on but I still love my W and will not agree to sign. I still stand for my M and wil continue to do so until I have to legally sign.
Markyb
Me: 41 W: 40 D5, S4 Bomb Dropped: 7/8/2007 Status: W has moved out with kids 8/25/2007
