Tree - this must be awful for you, bro. It sounds like you are playing it the best way you can...she is trying to get under your skin and make you crack. But you are being strong and steady...IF she wants to return to the marriage at some point, this is the man she will want to come back to. That's why it is so important that, as she continues to test you - you don't budge.

Say what I said - one hour, one day, one week at a time.

Me: 54
Her: 50 and sexy as hell
M: 32yrs
T: 34yrs
Bomb: Sept 26-07 "lost our emotional connection"
Bomb 2: Dec 25-07 she's "not feeling desire"
She asked if she could come home Apr 26-08!
Everything's GREAT!