Hi Kalni...maybe you are tired of this battle, but you havent waved the white flag yet. But...your H complimented you! And you said he looked at you like a woman...maybe thats amazing progress? Maybe you are waiting for something huge that these little things dont impact you? But I still see hope for you. And he called several times on V day and wanted to get hold of you...maybe he is softening!?
Your H is a Gemini and you have the moon in Gemini, so yes you have the perfect Male-Female connection with your H. My BF is a Leo and I have the Moon in Leo. The Sun is the male principle and the Moon is the female, so to have them in the same sign that way round is very positive and means you connect on a soul level. So we both have that in our Rs ! I cant see that the eclipse is hitting any catastrophic point in your chart, so maybe it wont be anything significant on that day, but tell me how your week goes.
I have green eyes too!! We are true Pisceans.
I understand what you mean about wanting a man by your side who can express a thought, an emotion, with honesty and integrity. I just had the same conversation with my sister. I wear my heart on my sleeve and its so wierd to realise my BF is the opposite, he holds it all in. To think I just spent 4 wierd hours with him where he is coming to see ME, after dumping me without reason and yet he cant explain what his motivation is for doing that, or show me his real self. I agree with that DB coach, these WAS are not thinking or acting rationally! They are faraway...my BF looked it today.
About the date...if you are feeling a bit like you want to give up, maybe you think, so what, maybe I will chance an invitation? Can you try just something smaller, a lunch, or just stay for a coffee!!??? Instead of jumping straight to asking him on a date? I dont know, I guess it goes against DBing, but maybe you just want something to change, to shift gears. I still think though that he has shown some positive signs in the past week. And it sounds like your friends agree. I really think you sound like an amazing woman and your H is clearly a nut for walking out on you!! More patience, see what this week brings...? Hugs to you!
