It's nuts! "I want my space and you need to back off. So come over to my house and spend the day with me watching kids and then we'll go to dinner and go shopping and have a great time and I'll see you tomorrow ok?".
Oh yes - She is the queen of sending mixed signals and not doing what she says.
I had D last night, so we played at home this morning then went out for lunch - Same place we always go on a Sunday, but without W this time. I called W on the way and asked if she could watch D for an hour or two this afternoon while I run a few errands. Said that was okay, and I told her I'd bring D around after lunch.
I dropped D off and was pretty much in and out - I asked W if she wanted anything, but she said no, so I just left. Came home, took a nap, went out and did some stuff. Nothing exciting.
I went back to W's to get D - W told me all about what D had been doing, but wasn't all that talkative. We changed D, then W was all "Hey, we should fix your eyebrows". Off we went into her room while she trimmed my eyebrows for me. wtf?
She gave me a pile of stuff when I left - A meatloaf to cook, our second TiVo and a bunch of clothes I apparently forgot. No hug/kiss/ILY when I left. She hadn't left the house all day - Closest she got was carrying stuff to my car when I left.
She said she'd come over tomorrow or Tuesday and help me with painting and stuff, so we'll see if that really happens. I'm home tomorrow with D (W totally forgot), and have to take one of W's cats to the vet in the evening.
I'm talking to W on IM right now - So far she hasn't told me to leave her alone. I sent her a few photos of D stealing my dinner and eating her second round of food for the night... She seems cheerful, so at least that is something.
