Yeah, I think that is what I was needing from him...just some kind of acknowledgement that it was wrong. That it messed things up for us. I got pretty mad when we first started talking about her, and then apologized. He said I shouldn't apologize that he deserved whatever anger I had about it. I did drop it when he asked me to and hopefully with time we can talk about things enough for me to deal with my feelings. I am so glad he is avoiding her, and I do believe him when he says that. My mother said to me yesterday...if he wanted her, then why would have moved here? She has a good point.
We had a good time last night. We went out and I think he actually had fun. I ended up spending the night at his apartment and it was nice. I think we both seemed really comfortable last night and this morning. I think his level of comfort probably comes from how I act around him. I definitely felt more comfortable after our convo about OW. It was almost like a relief. I guess I just had this fear that he regretted moving here and wished he was still with her.
I have my fingers crossed about the interview too. I really think if he has a job that he is proud of it will do wonders for him and for our relationship.
