She will ask only as much as she is willing to hear. To get her to open up, tell her you know her well, and want her to be peaceful with the course her life is taking. You just heard in her voice that not everything is OK. I want you to ask me anything you want to know or need to know. I love you always. I want you to know that I will tell you the truth.
And then just answer her questions yes, or no if it is that type of question, and be very careful to answer only the question that she is asking. You want her to construct her own knowledge, based on what she has found out this weekend. Just tell the truth. She will figure it out and come back with more questions when the time is right for her.
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.
