Back on the Roller Coaster - OW still around

[micoms]

FA,

The four stages are for Dbing, to try to get a WAS back. I have seen some movement on reducing bad feelings, it seems she is friendlier these days. I did explain to coach W is most likely in a MLC(by W's own words and MC thinks also). I've also seen my W in replay, bringing up things that I did 20yrs ago that upset her. I think her sleeping all the time was a way of dealing with her depression.

Sounds like your H is reconnecting. Continue to look good when around H, he'll notice. Sounds like your're making baby steps, don't loose sight of the little improvements.

Mike