Hello Theo, It's been a while, but I still look for your posts when I get the chance. I am wondering, have you updated your goals recently? It is not clear to me how asking your W out for Valentine's Day fits in with your goals, but it sure could be possible...maybe a 180 from recent interaction?
Anyway, life here is pretty good, just treating W like a teenaged daughter and moving on without her.
Take care, SD
Me 41 W 41 Kids: S9 S7 Married 16 years Bomb dropped 2/2/07 Still living together! current thread