Well, the bottom line is that my wife is having sex with another man. I am getting tired of just sitting back and waiting for it to end.

DBing has done wonders for my self-esteem and attitude. And perhaps that's a bad thing in some regards. I don't see how a person with strong self-esteem would permit such deliberate and repeated acts of disrespect.

I am growing intolerant of the disrespect. Is that good or bad?


Me: 48
Divorce final May 2010
B: 19
B: 15
G: 9