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[Virtually_Handsome]

Dom, I really appreciate what you are saying. I have been givig her space, and really, not being negative for a long time. To stop all of my objectionable behavior, I think I would have to stop breathing, and I am not prepared to go that far. If I get even an inkling that she is interested, I will go on, but things can't be like this.

Barging in with interest. bang clatter splat!

I've read your threads forever! (I guess that's not such a great thing, huh?) It's good to meet you!

DH, your W is comfortable where she is. I didn't say happy, I said comfortable. I think you'll have a hard time getting her to budge. I hope I am wrong and you won't be stuck like I am.

I fear you may be right here. With the exception of the lack of an OM, I think my W and you H are similar in that regard. Living this way just doesn't seem to bother them.

Research and check the laws in your state about custody issues for the spouse who leaves the house. Whether that ends up you or W, you need to know the legalities.

I need to do this, just to be sure.

When you have your conversation, do have all the possibilities ready to choose from and make action follow the words. Don't put yourself into stronger and longer limbo.

This is a good point, when I do this, I can't let the status quo be a acceptable outcome.

Thanks again for stopping by, I really appreciate it!