Sometimes I think that the members of this BB except me and maybe BB and BF live in Amish villages without even television sets. Pretty much I am doing exactly what most single women my age with approximately my personality type do. I'm not about to hang out at bars looking for one night stands but I'm not going to stay celibate until I meet just the perfect member of the male population to spend the rest of my life with either. It's okay if I muck around a bit for a while.
I've been in a relationship for almost a decade but I still remember what it's like to be single, and I have tons of single friends. Cobra may believe what he wishes but times ARE changing. Have changed. There'll always be a market for doe-eyed virgins but it's not a necessity even to be married well, if that were your goal. Education, intelligence, manners, and money, not necessarily in that order, are a pass to pretty much anything, regardless of number of sexual partners.
