I've been following along how you plan to change things and the possible outcomes. I wanted to offer another possibility - nothing will change. W won't budge. That's how it's been with my H. Nothing I do makes an impact and he does or doesn't do whatever he chooses.
DH, your W is comfortable where she is. I didn't say happy, I said comfortable. I think you'll have a hard time getting her to budge. I hope I am wrong and you won't be stuck like I am.
Research and check the laws in your state about custody issues for the spouse who leaves the house. Whether that ends up you or W, you need to know the legalities.
When you have your conversation, do have all the possibilities ready to choose from and make action follow the words. Don't put yourself into stronger and longer limbo.
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maybe you shoudl start the clock, from when you start doing it consistently well, without slipups. that might change your frame of mind.
Wow Dom R, DBing without slipups? that's a lofty goal! How do we do that?
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
