Dude - You should be worn out, this is brutal. You are on the rollercoaster - big time. Putting her down for a nap -- yes you are dealing with a child. As far as GAL - we partied and played cards at the shop last night until 4AM. What was I thinking?
Give her space, take it one day at a time and tell her that you just are not ready to discuss these matters. What's the rush? Things are more stable, the kids are happier, things are cool.
She's just getting nervous and she is VERY confused.
