Sorry, FIB, you cannot "un-detach" until you first DETACH! I don't believe XXX can do anything to save the marriage...even if she was capable...until you deal with your neediness...clinginess...anger...unforgiveness. Sorry, Brother....I believe this is still just as much about the matters of YOUR heart....as it is about XXX's!
Lots of voices here....I just pray that God's voice is the one you are listening to most.
As the wild sage Forrest Gump said, "That's all I got to say 'bout that!"
Praising God Daily, Remaining "FaithfulH" Me: 62 W: 62 D:33 S:30 & 31 Married: 40 Years BD: Sep 2006 Piecing: May 2007 2nd BD: May 2014 Working On It: Today
