Just thought I'd stop by and say hello. There's been lots going on here!
One thing I wonder is what things were like between you and W when you first got together and before things started getting difficult. Were there any obvious differences (I am guessing there must be!) other than the general change from positivity to negativity? Has W always wanted to be right, and if so how did you used to react to that 20 years ago? (Sorry if I'm recovering old ground)
20 years ago? Not sure I just read right that you've been married 22 years. You don't look more than 30 to me!
Thinking of you, and hope the weekend has been OK.